"There must be mutual decisions in love. Of course, I should make the final decision. Naturally, this is a joke. It is necessary to reach a common ground. When there are different opinions, it ends up with fights, separation, and alimony. There should be no sense of endurance. Therefore, one should not marry too early or force someone. They say, 'Get married, it's the age to get married.' When girls pass 25, they say, 'You stayed at home.' What should I do? I am 35 years old and still single at home?"
These words were said by our "Eurovision" representative Samira Efendi on the "Efirdən kənar" show.
She advised young people to take this step only after feeling ready to start a family:
"Both ladies and gentlemen should start a life after they understand themselves. They should travel and enjoy, then decide. It is harder for women, but they must stand on their own feet. There is a lot of psychological pressure on women here. One must be ready for this. You cannot start a life because of what neighbors or someone else will say. This is why there is gossip here. I answer that I cannot live for the public, let them live for me."
Samira told women not to respond to messages from people writing to them on social networks:
"You cannot trust the 'white horseman.' I am a realist. If Elon Musk wants, he will come and find me, but I don't believe in such things. Every woman's first weapon is education. There is no need to reply to anyone's messages on social networks. It is a trap. Social networks are a way out for creative people, but a trap for ordinary people. Girls, do not believe in such things. I see this a lot around me." (Axşam.az)